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The Sex Addict Fan and Howard Stern-Era Homophobia

from Life In The Bloodbox · #26

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5 min

Tim describes a listener/friend who is a heterosexual sex addict uncomfortable with gay content, leading into riffs about Howard Stern's influence on his generation's ideas of masculinity and a graphic bit about giving advice on oral sex technique.

In this bit8 moments
  • 18:41The fan just fucked a lot — different girl every night, which Tim finds interesting enough for the show.
  • 19:08Tim brought Grindr to show this "very straight" guy, and the fan recoiled at a dick pic while straight friends casually compare size.
  • 19:31The guy was raised on the Howard Stern show — Connecticut kid, grew up in late-90s homophobic culture that shaped his ideas about masculinity and women.
  • 20:06Tim's friend tells him he doesn't talk about being gay on the show enough, insists that if he wants to be a real star he has to discuss his sexuality more.
  • 21:01Tim questions whether the friend actually has credentials to advise him on stardom or whether the sexuality angle is even interesting compared to CIA or cult talk.
  • 21:49The fan doesn't want to see a dick pic but also shouldn't be afraid of seeing one — Tim points out the contradiction in his hangup.
  • 22:17The sex-addict fan is a big show listener who works a normal middle-management job making low six figures but lives a risky, exciting personal life with gambling and card games.
  • 23:00Despite his wild habits, the fan is a regular guy who loves comedy and podcasts — he just wants to be home by 7 p.m. every night and off on weekends.
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