Interview · moment 21 of 26

Ditching People Who Don't Serve You: Coming Out and Career Choices

from #261 - Please, Die Alone | The Tim Dillon Show · #261

4 min

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Tim explains how coming out of the closet taught him to stop needing approval, and how he's applied that same 'f*** them' philosophy to moving to LA, wearing a wig in a video, or doing Logan Paul's podcast despite judgment.

In this bit9 moments
  • Tim wrestles with whether he could live outside New York City, noting other comics moved to LA.
  • So much of life revolves around a shitty career, even when it's a good one and you've done great things in it.
  • Quoting Kathy Griffin: the only award in comedy is to say you're still doing it.
  • A lot of people now aren't standing in the rain—they think they're in it but it's just a gray day.
  • Tim saw an old show flyer from seven years ago and realized a lot of those comics quit and moved into writing.
  • A gig writing bits for radio once a month felt like a day job, even for $150—he'd dread the entire time.
  • The biggest thing Tim figured out: he didn't need the people he thought he needed.
  • When Tim came out of the closet, he realized his friends might not like him anymore, but who cares.
  • Every decision—moving to LA, wearing a wig in a video, going on Logan Paul's podcast—Tim approaches with the same attitude: people might judge, but fuck them.
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Kathy GriffinJoan RiversLogan PaulLos Angeles

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