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Why Travel Is Overrated (and Japan Has No Love)

from Andrew Schulz | The Tim Dillon Show #436 · #436

5 min

Andrew argues travel is overrated and often a substitute for personality, then Tim describes his trip to Japan, calling it a beautiful but loveless, oppressively rigid culture built on sacrifice rather than affection, illustrated by a bartender scolding him for kissing his wife.

In this bit9 moments
  • Tim says Japan is absolute torture to him, and people are going to hate this take.
  • The core problem with Japan: there is no love in the culture at all.
  • Women stop aging at 13 and are dressed like cartoon characters in the most oppressively sexless environment he's seen.
  • Dating in Japan is unbelievably painful, forcing people to develop mechanisms like sex cafes just to meet or have any outlet.
  • Japan has monetized every aspect of life—naps, companionship—leaving no room for natural, free expressions of affection.
  • Tim got scolded by a bartender in an underground illegal bar for kissing his wife.
  • Japanese culture is built around sacrifice and denying what you want, the opposite extreme from American excess.
  • A Japanese woman describes dating culture: Japanese men are not communicative, forcing women to assume and test the waters constantly.
  • She explains her preference: bilingual or bicultural partners who understand both languages and can mix them.
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