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Funeral Stories: The Mystery Guest and Cancer Warriors

from Growing Up Gottschee with Dan St. Germain · #122

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4 min

More funeral anecdotes including a random stranger hugging a widower at a wake, referencing Norm Macdonald's bit about wanting a sad funeral, and a story about a woman who fought pancreatic cancer for a decade before succumbing.

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  • 40:44Tim describes being assigned as a kid to be the funny one at funerals while people were upset.
  • 40:54At his grandmother's funeral, he tried to entertain his sad cousin with jokes but she ended up crying.
  • 41:37His father showed pictures of his dog to people at his grandmother's funeral instead of dealing with the emotion.
  • 42:07A mysterious man in bike shorts and a hot pink tank top showed up to Tim's uncle's funeral, hugged people, and nobody knew who he was.
  • 42:59Tim says he could see himself being that random guy who shows up to a funeral uninvited.
  • 43:27Che describes a woman who fought pancreatic cancer for nine years with a community supporting her through the battle.
  • 43:54Tim reflects on how fighting cancer gave this woman meaning and warrior status that most people never experience.
  • 44:28Pancreatic cancer victims are usually dead in three months, but this woman lived for ten years after diagnosis.
  • 44:44Tim jokes that tobacco companies deserve credit for providing people with meaning through debilitating disease.
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