Interview · moment 14 of 17
LA vs New York and Fragile Modern Kids
from The Gift · #97
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2 minGuest
Michelle talks about splitting time between LA and NY for her kids, then criticizes how coddled and fragile the current generation of children is compared to how narcissistic parents raised her generation.
- 51:48Tim finds LA to be a very isolated city overall.
- 52:05Modern kids seem fragile compared to previous generations, struggling with allergies and environmental sensitivity.
- 52:20Tim's generation had narcissistic parents who shut down emotions and put kids in the backseat in every way.
- 52:36The pendulum has swung too far the other way—Tim admits he's guilty of it, putting his kids in therapy and encouraging openness.
- 52:50Better parent-child relationships come with a cost: kids think they're the most important thing in the room.
- 53:07Tim refuses to praise his kids for things they aren't actually good at, like macaroni art, because it's detrimental and not honest.
- 53:18His grandma told him he'd never make the NBA, and he thanks her for the reality check.
- 53:29Tim still gets mad that his grandma might have been wrong—he could have made the NBA.
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